I just have no time to write an entry. I am just too busy with my work. There's a lots of payments that need to be done everyday I come to work. It's so stressful. I totally hate doing payments especially when it comes to voiding of receipt. I just finished doing part of my payment & I need to relax myself so here I am writing a post. Btw I cleared things between me n my new partner. Hopefully this time we will work well.
Yesterday was my fiance's dad 49th birthday. I reached there at 8.15pm and they were still waiting for me & my fiance to eat together. There were total of 7 people in the home. They were his parent of coz, the younger sister, Siti (2nd bro gf) and of coz me & my fiance. Not forgetting Hakim the upper floor neighbour's son. There were a lot of food & I was enjoying it myself. I left the house like around 10.30pm. I was talking crap with his younger sister while he & his mum watch drama TV3. His dad wasn't feeling well so he watched TV at the hall. To cut short, I had a marvellous time.
I read my SIL blog. She was talking about husband should help the wife doing housework & also I was reading the comment that was given by a lot of people who read her blog. I shall say my piece but SIL HOPE YOU GET THIS STRAIGHT. I’M JUST GIVING MY POINT OF VIEW. THAT’S ALL. NO OFFENCE.
MY POINT OF VIEW
Yes I agree that husband need to help the wife but not to the extend where the wife enjoying her beauty sleep while the husband do the household, bathing the baby & cooking. Not forgetting even to do the milk for the baby. I find it curious when the baby pass motion, the wife need the husband to be there to wash the baby butt. Why must it be two people doing that! I just don’t get it. Sometimes it wasn't even the wife who do it. It's always the husband even when the wife just sitting doing nothing. Another example will be laundry. Why do wife need the husband to do the hanging of the clothes when they are a full time housewife where they are at home the whole day while the husband just came back from work & there they are asking the husband doing the laundry. Well I don’t deny my bro is a good cook so I don’t mind him cooking unless you ladies think that your husband not good in cooking.
Well in my SIL blog she was saying that people who say that men can't help wife to do houseworks deserves a tight slap from new generation wife club. Like I say I'm just saying my point of view & I think if she says that she must also have her point of view. I can only say this. I think the new generation wife club are all those who are just plain lazy to do housework, taking care of the baby, still sleeping while the MIL or FIL are awake doing housework & are those who will just wide their legs on the bed for the husband. That is what the new generation wife club is. Those are my point of view. Sorry if it seem harsh to all the wife outside there coz there are some who i see with my own eyes where the wife do every single things that the wife supposed to do.
Ok I think I talk too much. I have to admit that I’m plain lazy also but I don’t think im categorized in this NEW GENERATION WIFE CLUB coz im not married. Hahah
Yesterday was my fiance's dad 49th birthday. I reached there at 8.15pm and they were still waiting for me & my fiance to eat together. There were total of 7 people in the home. They were his parent of coz, the younger sister, Siti (2nd bro gf) and of coz me & my fiance. Not forgetting Hakim the upper floor neighbour's son. There were a lot of food & I was enjoying it myself. I left the house like around 10.30pm. I was talking crap with his younger sister while he & his mum watch drama TV3. His dad wasn't feeling well so he watched TV at the hall. To cut short, I had a marvellous time.
I read my SIL blog. She was talking about husband should help the wife doing housework & also I was reading the comment that was given by a lot of people who read her blog. I shall say my piece but SIL HOPE YOU GET THIS STRAIGHT. I’M JUST GIVING MY POINT OF VIEW. THAT’S ALL. NO OFFENCE.
MY POINT OF VIEW
Yes I agree that husband need to help the wife but not to the extend where the wife enjoying her beauty sleep while the husband do the household, bathing the baby & cooking. Not forgetting even to do the milk for the baby. I find it curious when the baby pass motion, the wife need the husband to be there to wash the baby butt. Why must it be two people doing that! I just don’t get it. Sometimes it wasn't even the wife who do it. It's always the husband even when the wife just sitting doing nothing. Another example will be laundry. Why do wife need the husband to do the hanging of the clothes when they are a full time housewife where they are at home the whole day while the husband just came back from work & there they are asking the husband doing the laundry. Well I don’t deny my bro is a good cook so I don’t mind him cooking unless you ladies think that your husband not good in cooking.
Well in my SIL blog she was saying that people who say that men can't help wife to do houseworks deserves a tight slap from new generation wife club. Like I say I'm just saying my point of view & I think if she says that she must also have her point of view. I can only say this. I think the new generation wife club are all those who are just plain lazy to do housework, taking care of the baby, still sleeping while the MIL or FIL are awake doing housework & are those who will just wide their legs on the bed for the husband. That is what the new generation wife club is. Those are my point of view. Sorry if it seem harsh to all the wife outside there coz there are some who i see with my own eyes where the wife do every single things that the wife supposed to do.
Ok I think I talk too much. I have to admit that I’m plain lazy also but I don’t think im categorized in this NEW GENERATION WIFE CLUB coz im not married. Hahah